"Art of communication"
It's a topic that we all are learning, cause we need to.
We learn about when to talk, when not to;
We learn about saying the right thing at the right time;
We learn about talking without judging;
We learn about the body gestures, tones & expressions which could make a lot of difference in a conversation...
The hardest of all, to me at least... is when to remain silence.
Shall we say it out loud when we are angry and offended?
Some people says yes, some people prefer to keep it to themselves.
Shall we get a friend and cry over it when we are sad and emo?
Maybe not too often before you scare your friends away, but define moderate.
I'm not the keep it to myself kind of person, I talk, trying hard to talk in a "it's acceptable to eveyone's way",
there are people who name it diplomatic.
And of course there are times that I failed, happens a lot in fact.
Today I was taught to remain silence.
Don't get me wrong cause it isn't a bad lesson at all.
I've learnt to give some space for people to breath, which I'm totally a noob in this.
I was too much a persistent person, and that's terrible.
Pieces of me has fallen apart right now. Totally need to pick them up and put them back together again.
Finger cross, tomorrow is gonna be a better day.
Deep breath and PHEW~
