I told my best friend this, but in fact I'm telling myself too:
A person who doesn't know how to swim would start to struggle to live when he's drowning.
Panic hits him and then he starts to grab and pull everything around him just to live, including those hands which are trying to save him.
But that would normally drown him even faster, or worst, drown someone who's trying to save him.
The fact that he may not have a clear mind to realise at that very moment, is he need to let go, stop struggling and let it go by the flow. The awesome thing about how we were created, is when we stop struggling, we float on our own.
He may not be heading to where he wanted while he's floating, but eventually, savior will come, or he might even reach a land where he could stand again. Only one condition applies, Never Give Up!
Who know's we might even learn how to swim?
I wish my friend could figure a way out not to panic while she's drowning. I hope she's happy like she always does. I'm hoping the same for myself too.
